Men have been known to be the liars in relationships. It however turns out that ladies outsmart men when they decide to cheat. Fortunately, such women portray similar characteristics that may help you know if they are cheats.
In an age of birth control, abortion and the fact that only a small percentage of acts of unprotected intercourse result in pregnancy, imagine how big the percentage of women probably is.
There are several reasons, why women are cheating their partner and I’m pretty sure that more than 50% are guilty of it. But how should you know if your girlfriend is loyal? We explore the most common signs that can help you tell whether your woman is cheating on you.
Below are some of the common traits that every cheating woman possesses;
1. Acting defensively
If your woman is cheating on you she is afraid of getting caught; she will get defensive and anything you ask or say to her will be taken as an accusation. You can know she is cheating if she is defensive about how she spends her time, who she spends it with and when she refuses to answer simple questions.
2. Sexier Underwear
When a woman is involved with someone new, she often will go out and purchase sexier bras and panties – because she feels sexier.
There is a pleasure woman get in being appreciated as a sexual being and will behave a little sexier… maybe she’s leaving an extra button undone on her blouse or wearing her hair down instead of neatly tied up.
Maybe she has changed her perfume (and that could go either way, stronger to cover the scent of his aftershave or lighter because he’s not fond of heavy fragrances). She may also change the way she wears make-up for similar reasons.
3. Telling Lies
A woman who deceives you can easily cheat on you. If on several occasions the things that she tells you don’t add up, she is not trustworthy at all.
4. Over Demanding
She can never have enough. If she is ever in a needful situation even after you give her cash, complains about lack of attention when she is always your top priority and every other thing, my brother that woman is insatiable! She will definitely look for someone better than you to provide these unending wants.
5. Frequent nagging
Women who are seeing someone will tend to nag as they shift away from the normal harmonious communication. This is the time when a woman will lash out and pick arguments at the slightest provocation.
This is considered as one of the ways of justifying her deeds so that the relationship can look like one that is not working.
A cheating woman will never appreciate however much you provide for her. Her motto is always ‘be a man and put in the effort’. This is mean and demoralizing! It would be better if she is over demanding but appreciating.
Such a woman will always compare what you have done for her with what other women have been done for.
8. Flirting with Other Men
Men enjoy the company of flirting type of women. A woman who loves getting attention of any kind from men provides an easy prey. If she cannot desist from such behaviour it becomes very tricky for her to resist such men
9. She Loves Fun
Don’t get me wrong on this one. Fun is good, healthy and highly recommended in any relationship. But if she is the thrill seeker type who can’t miss a day going out and quickly jumps on any opportunity of fun that come up, be careful. Excitements accompanying such fun especially with a different man may cause her to sin.
10. Very Secretive
A woman who cheats has the tendency to hide things. She knows that there are so many dark sides in her life and would not wish anyone to know.
11. Spending less time with your family or friends
If a woman begins to detach herself from the family, there are strong signs that she is cheating. There are also other women who will stop any close relationship with your friends for fear of showing off their guilt.
The woman may be feeling guilty and being close to your family or friends is painful because symptoms of guilt may manifest.
12. Extremely Jealous
A cheating partner hates to be cheated on. Such women can do extremely harmful things if you cheat on them. You will find her stalking on you even when you are least bothered on her life.
13. Unavailable Emotionally
When it reaches a point where she is emotionally unavailable for you, it is a sign that things are not well in your relationship. At this point, she distances herself from you and notices so many weaknesses in you. If another man appears with the strengths she is looking for, my friend she will forget about you.
14. She’s less interested in sex.
Every couple has sex routines. Maybe three times a week is your norm; maybe you get it in every night. But if your norm inexplicably changes, and you find you’re battling a new excuse every night, you may want to investigate what lies at the root of the issue.
Is she really too tired (every damn night)? Has your sex life just gotten that boring? Or, is she simply disinterested in humping you…because she’s getting it elsewhere?
We’re not saying you should draw wild conclusions from a single “not tonight,” but be aware of what normal looks like so you know when your sex schedule diverges from it, and take the time to discuss what the real issue is.
15. Super Busy
Can you pop by for a visit and maybe take her out to lunch or dinner without making a formal arrangement? Is she open and welcoming to such a pleasant surprise from her man? Or does she rush you out and postpone your spontaneous gesture? Now, don’t sell yourself short.
Make sure you test her on this when she should be able to go out with you. Think hard, is her schedule as open to you as it used to be? You’ll know your woman is cheating if she barely ever has time for you claiming a busy schedule.
A woman in love will move aside a mountain just to spend time with her man. But if she is constantly making excuses why she can’t see you or dine with you, then she is dining someone else.
These signs are a clear indication that your woman is cheating on you, or intends to do so. If there is no cheating, the same signs may be a suggestion that the relationship is not where it should be, but don’t get paranoid unless there is a combination of the above signs that make you feel like something is wrong.
If the many signs above add up, consider asking her directly if she is seeing someone else. I have collected the 16 most popular reasons why woman cheat, always be aware of them, when it comes to choosing the right woman for a relationship.