When your man starts acting differently, don’t ignore. Before you know it, he will be gone or brought you infections.
There are many signs that will alarm you if he’s cheating. Phone rings in the middle of the night and he cannot explain clearly what that is about. And the obvious shift of a password that was not there is suddenly introduced.
We have gathered information from cheating men and their wives/ ex-wives. There are several small changes that women never notice until it is too late. Here is what a man does when he’s cheating.
1 Sexually better and more appetite
A sudden shift in what’s “regular” or familiar in bed — without discussing wanting something new — is a big warning sign of cheating. All the men I interviewed expressed experiencing a huge rush of testosterone, which manifested as a new confidence during sex.
“I started my affair and all I wanted was sex, but not from my wife. She knew something was up, because our sex life was always pretty active.”
“After I started up with [my mistress], I started sleeping with my wife much more often. She told me I was really aggressive in bed and that she hadn’t seen me that way before.”
2 He was irritable or down and now he’s suspiciously cheery
It might be because he was questioning your relationship and has cheered himself up by flirting/sexting someone else.
Is your partner more or less affectionate than usual? More could mean he feels guilty about something, less that he’s withdrawing from you.
3 He smells differently
If your partner smells impossibly fresh and clean after a hard day at the office, could be the affair has already started (he’s had a shower after sex at their lover’s place).
He smells of a perfume you don’t wear? He might well be rubbing up against someone else.
4 Your instincts tell you something’s wrong
Most people who seriously suspect their partner is cheating turn out to be right.
If you can’t put your finger on it, but you know something’s not the same and worry your partner’s being tempted elsewhere, trust your instincts.
Particularly listen to your intuition if you’re a woman who doesn’t have a problem with jealousy. We’ve got great inner radars.
5 His phone has a password
Here is the thing, passwords are meant to protect conversations. If your man’s phone has a pattern/password, don’t question whether he is cheating on you or not, just look for a girl he is cheating with.
6 He goes outside the house to receive calls
If you notice your man moves out of the house to receive some calls, that devil of yours is cheating. One day, if he does so, follow him and listen to his conversation.
7 He sometimes takes a shower in the evening
Most men, almost all don’t take a shower in the evening…you can tell me if you have seen one. If your man comes one evening and all of a sudden start boiling water for a shower, tell him, “come here I check whether you are smelling a woman!!!”
On the flip side if he is the type that takes showers every evening then watch his urgency to take that shower when he gets home.
8 He’s talking less
If he’s less interested in talking generally, it could be because he’s scared of slipping up.
If he’s just become interested in someone else, he’ll start volunteering less information about what he’s up to when you aren’t around.